Parent and Teen Relationships

Children argon raised differently each day. The manage manpowert parents raise their children puke affect them finishedout life history, and make them who they become as an adult. This is why it is important for parents and teens to bind com/%EF%BB%BFtechnology-effects-of-human-relationships/healthy relationships. Some parents whip their children for doing something wrong, some tease their children and whip them, but some do non even dread about what their children do and in the future, this could be a major problem, peculiarly for teenagers. When it comes to parents having to understand what their teenager is doing with their lives sometimes, it is unbearable for the parents.The teenage years of new(a) men and young women are sometimes the most experimental years of 1s life. A teenager becomes more curious about sexual activity, alcohol, drugs, and beauty this is especially true for teenage women beca consumption they try to find ship dissolveal to make their bodies ma nner even more beautiful although there brush off be harmful effects in the end. These four curiosities alone shadower drive parents crazy, but there are some methods that parents can use to help cope with the hard times that parents and teenagers may go through during the teenage years. Stories like Two Kinds by Amy Tan can sometimes help us learn from their mis pretends.In class, we read and discussed Two Kinds by Amy Tan. This taradiddle is about a young lady friend named Jing-Mei who has a very imperious m other that indigences her young lady to be just like many famed young actors of their time. So many things go on in this young ladies life, for example her mother takes her out to the beauty shop and makes her go about a Shirley Temple hair tenderloin, and in the end her mother hates the hair cut and consequently tells her daughter it looks awful, she says you look like a Negro Chinese. (468) she acted on this as if the child had done it on purpose. This adjustment i n itself can affect the behavior of young men and young women because as they get older they may not care what their parents say and their children start to resurrect against their parents leading to many dangerous paths.The difference between my life and this point is that I was told as a child that I could do anything with my life that I wanted to do. I was never made into anything that I did not want to become. My dad alship canal had the dream of me becoming an awesome soccer player because that is what my brother wantedto do but I had other plans. I wanted to become a boundr, and go to school for dance one day, and that is what I did and I am here today. This little girl did not have that chance, her mother ruled her life and she became what her mother wanted her to become.A relationship is the key element in any mother daughters relationship. We see in this story that the mother is very peremptory and that affects the daughter in many ways. Many children today do not have good relationship with their parents because of certain trim backs. These issue the childs issues or the parents. Some parents may take pull wires of their children like in Two Kinds. However, other situations are the children can chasten the parents. We see this every day on television much(prenominal) as MTV, with Teen Cribs. This is a show where the parents pretty much give their children anything and everything they want in life. As in Two Kinds sometimes the child can be so rambunctious that the parent cannot be in control condition of their child but the child controls the parent.There are also many ways that parents can fix these types of situations, so these issues do not result into a problem. Parents are not supposed to be your best friend they are supposed to tell you what to do. Ways to fix this is to sit down and burble with your kids and lay down the rules and requirements that need to be dealt with. Others may have to take drastic measures and send their childr en off to get help because they cannot control them, such as boarding schools, military schools, religious schools, and even juvenile hall. If you watch your children at an too soon age to listen and be obedient then it will stick with them.Your child should respect you and look up to you from an early age. Children come what they can and cannot do at an early age, but when children know they can get away with anything when it comes to the parents they push the limit and dont recall about who theyre hurting in the long run. These kids have never been scolded, whipped, or said no to and know that their parents either do not care or care but do nada about it.As we grow older, we learn that our parents only told us what to do because they love us and probably have gone through the same thing. I, forexample, look back on my childhood as an adult now and think how my parents were doing me a favor and doing what was best for me. Knowing this now, I see why my parents treated me the w ay they did and disciplined me for doing things that I was told not to do. As a society, we can learn from stories like Two Kinds. These stories can be eyeball opening for parents in the future, and how we raise our children, I hope to be a good parent one day and teach my kids the lessons my parents taught me.